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JULY of 2011 was the final straw.
I was walking home from work... actually it was not "work" anymore. It would be the last time I would ever work in the apartment industry.
I was done with that business. In fact that's exactly what I told my (now former) boss.
She had come into my office in the middle of the day to fire me. In front of the entire staff. She did close the office door but the entire event was visible through the large windows. She handed me a check and said, "The company sent me here to fire you". My stomach dropped. It was the second time in 60 days. I must have looked like a deer in headlights.
Simple. I wasn't the right man for the job. I WAS A SALES PERSON AND SALES COACH! Not a person who sits behind a desk and deposits checks all day. I was only doing that work because it was the position that paid the most in an industry I once loved. I had ZERO gratitude for the job but had no problem accepting $55K per year to do it.
She looked so perplexed. "What happened?", She asked me. All I could tell her was, "I don't know". I then I did the only thing I could think to do. I told her about a couple issues on the property that I was dealing with and then proceeded to fill a box with my personal items that were on my desk. A couple pictures, some binders I had created to help me better manage the property and a couple awards I won at my other job that I brought in to remind me that I was good.
As I slowly began to make my way out of the office she said, "You know you are a great salesman. If I had a leasing manager position open I would..." I interrupted her, "Ummm... I think i'm done with this business" And I walked out.
I remember the last person I saw as I headed out was one of the young kids who worked there. He was shocked that I was fired and I thanked him for that, as I walked off the property wearing my suit and holding my box.
I then walked home. 5 miles.
Why did I walk home?
We only could afford 1 car at the time and I didn't have the guts to call my wife to tell her why I needed her to come pick me up 4 hours early. Oh my poor wife.
As I walked home I was trying to figure out what I was going to do next. I had no interest in ever going to work for someone again and so I couldn't think of anything.
When I came home early I saw the look in Angela's eyes. She knew.... She knew and she was about to lose it. I pulled her into our bedroom where we could have some privacy and I told her what happened. The shock in her face. The feeling I had while I imagined her second guessing the decision to ever marry me.
This feeling I was having was what created the anger, the depression and the desperation I would experience later on.
Then she just said the words that would change our lives. "That's it. We're doing dōTERRA"
I WAS NOW DESPERATE
After this we both set out to do the business together but I was so desperate to make this business work I called everyone I could think of. Called people I use to work with, Old friends, ...Family. EVERYONE!
I enrolled a couple people but I chased so many more away. My desperation was obvious, it was costing me money and prospects were not responding to my calls or messages anymore.
This is where my message about the power of gratitude comes in. Watch this video below so you can hear how things changed for me and our business.
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Things turned out for the better
As of writing this blog it is now October 30th 2017 and we are on the verge of hitting a new rank in our business that would catapult us into an income far beyond what I thought could ever be possible. Allowing me and my wife to do things for people (who are where we once were) on a massive scale.
The sky is the limit and we are about to see how amazing life can truly be when you just take the most painful experiences in your life and turn them into the greatest blessing.
My gratitude for the events that occurred has tripled with every day our organization grows. As of today we have over 100,000 people in our business.
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I am so sorry to say this. The truth is I don't like it either. In fact I HATE IT but it's law. The law of growth and expansion is discomfort.
I learned this a couple years ago when I overcame my fear of public embarrassment by doing things that frightened me. VIDEOS! I had a fear that people would watch them and just make fun of me, tell me my ideas sucked or just plain tell me to stop immediately.
What I learned was that as soon as I got comfortable doing videos on a regular basis I suddenly ran into a new fear. NO ONE WAS GOING TO WATCH THEM!
Isn't that weird?
I actually shifted my belief from, "Everyone's going to watch my videos and tell me to shut up" to "No one is going watch my videos and I won't matter!"
I learned that no matter what you do there will always be a fear. No matter what you do your comfort will always have a limit. NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO there will always be something you need to overcome in order to have more.
In order to play in this game called, "Expansion" you have to consider that for once in your life it's not ok to just stay where you are. It's not ok to just accept the cards you have been dealt.
It's not OK to be anything but AMAZING!!
YOUR SUCCESS ZONE WILL ALWAYS EQUAL YOUR COMFORT ZONE means that in order to have more than you have right now you are going to have to be more than you are right now.
Give the video below a watch and find out how to take that next step!
YOU WANT IT!
Eddie Villa is a determined, uplifting, often obsessive and strong developing Network Marketing professional thanks to the success his wife Angela Villa had with dōTERRA. Meaning, it wasn't where he had originally thought his career in Property Management would lead him.