There is no right way... ONLY YOUR WAY!


I am NOT a GURU!

I don't want to be either. What I love being is an expert on me. Why I do what I do. What happens when I don't do the work that it takes for me to grow. What makes me happy. What makes me sad. What works for me with my business and what doesn't. Also WHY IT DOES OR DOESN'T! See?

I am merely working to understand and teach what works for me. It turns out that how I think and do is not unique to me. The things that work for me in life and my business also work for others. The important thing is...


If you think you are an exception to this rule then you are lying to yourself. I have seen people exert almost no effort at all and get very positive results. It would be counterproductive to them to try and be an expert in this situation and tell them they would do so much better if they pushed themselves harder. THE TRUTH IS doing it there way is working!

So when you are deciding to build a business, grow your marriage and relationships, improve your mindset or improve your health the goal is to find your strength and get support from successful people on how to use your own strengths to improve yourself.

Watch this vide below so you can see how I approach growing myself and helping others grow themselves when they work with me as a coach.



1. Strategic
2. Activator
3. Futuristic
4. Woo
5. Self-Assurance



People who are especially talented in the Strategic theme create alternative ways to proceed. Faced with any given scenario, they can quickly spot the relevant patterns and issues.

What makes you stand out?
Instinctively, you can reconfigure factual information or data in ways that reveal trends, raise issues, identify opportunities, or offer solutions. You bring an added dimension to discussions. You make sense out of seemingly unrelated information. You are likely to generate multiple action plans before you choose the best one. By nature, you periodically identify problems others fail to notice. You might create solutions and find the right answers. Perhaps you yearn to improve certain things about yourself, other people, or situations. Maybe you are drawn to specific kinds of classes, books, or activities. Why? Maybe they promise to give you the skills or knowledge you seek. Driven by your talents, you are known for your ease with language. This ability serves you well when you need to talk with newcomers or outsiders. Your vocabulary probably allows you to tell stories or express your ideas with great clarity. Because of your strengths, you generate innovative ideas.You offer unique perspectives on events, people, and proposals. You probably inspire people to start projects and launch initiatives. You tend to identify a goal, devise numerous ways of reaching it, then choose the best alternative. This explains why you see opportunities, trends, and solutions before your teammates, classmates, or peers see them.It’s very likely that you characteristically find the right words to express whatever you are thinking. You offer explanations, discuss ideas, give examples, or share stories. You effectively use the spoken word.

HOW I USE THIS STRENGTH:I always open my mouth when I have an opinion because I often see things that others don't... even when I think they should be obvious to others.


People who are especially talented in the Activator theme can make things happen by turning thoughts into action. They are often impatient.

What makes you stand out?
Instinctively, you want to be in charge. As soon as you have made up your mind, you are eager to get started. People who interfere with your progress probably irritate you. By nature, you may influence some of your friends to make things happen quickly. Sometimes you create enthusiasm in others by championing a particular project, rule, process, activity, or idea. Chances are good that you generate enthusiasm so people become as eager as you are to transform an idea into something tangible. You are energized, not paralyzed, by opportunities and possibilities. Because of your strengths, you may pay close attention to intelligent conversations. Perhaps you give credit to certain individuals who make key points that advance everyone’s understanding of a particular theory, concept, or idea. Sometimes you file away or make a mental note about specific information, knowing it might be useful one day. Driven by your talents, you may enjoy launching projects, diving into assignments, or starting new jobs.Sometimes you are the person who motivates others to begin tasks. To some degree, you gravitate to difficult-to-reach goals and relish taking charge. Perhaps you choose to forge ahead rather than wait for someone in authority to give you permission.

HOW I USE THIS STRENGTH:When I have an idea I move forward with it even though I don't know all the answers and other people have not given me validation. I VALIDATE MYSELF because I got the idea and that means it's mine to take on. 


People who are especially talented in the Futuristic theme are inspired by the future and what could be. They inspire others with their visions of the future.

What makes you stand out?
It’s very likely that you occasionally work seriously at something when you have defined the specific objective you want to reach in the near term or the long term. Remember, your other talents might influence how far into the future you can push certain goals and still give them your undivided attention. Because of your strengths, you feel an irresistible urge to introduce yourself to outsiders and start talking with them. Why? You welcome the chance to tell one more person what you dream of accomplishing in the coming months, years, or decades. You also want the individual to like you. Driven by your talents, you may channel some of your mental and physical energies toward what you might accomplish in the coming months, years, or decades. Sometimes you may ask yourself, “How far into the future can I think before some of my ideas start becoming vague or uninspiring?”Chances are good that you sense your life has deep meaning. With remarkable vividness, you often imagine where you will be, what you will be doing, and what you have the ability to accomplish in the coming months, years, or decades.Your dreams of tomorrow are very alive in your mind today. You intentionally strive to transform these possibilities into reality. Instinctively, you create detailed and vivid images of what the future promises. You can describe it long before others can imagine it.

HOW I USE THIS STRENGTH: I audit everything I do and make sure it aligns with my long terms goals. This keeps me integrity with my message and vision


People who are especially talented in the Woo theme love the challenge of meeting new people and winning them over. They derive satisfaction from breaking the ice and making a connection with another person.

What makes you stand out?
Chances are good that you sometimes enjoy surrounding yourself with companions rather than being alone. It’s very likely that you unquestionably change the topic when people are having difficulty talking with one another. You usually bring newcomers or outsiders together by sharing your ideas, telling stories, or reenacting humorous incidents. You often serve as the catalyst for good discussions or interesting personal conversations. Instinctively, you really enjoy starting discussions with newcomers. You probably engage outsiders in small talk. You are determined to make each person feel comfortable in your presence. After chatting with you, most individuals sense they have made a new friend. Because of your strengths, you might enjoy chance encounters with friends or strangers. Occasionally you engage them in conversation. You may rarely be at a loss for words. Perhaps you revel in dialogues, discussions, or verbal exchanges. This partially explains why you move swiftly from person to person, taking time to chat with each one.By nature, you want people to be as fond of you as you are of them. You have much love to share. You exhibit a generosity of spirit that draws individuals to you.

HOW I USE THIS STRENGTH: I focus on people. I show them that I am genuinely interested in who they are. This gives people space and permission to find value in me.


People who are especially talented in the Self-Assurance theme feel confident in their ability to manage their own lives. They possess an inner compass that gives them confidence that their decisions are right.

What makes you stand out?
Driven by your talents, you might register for high level courses or honors classes. Why? Perhaps you are attracted to subjects that are not easy to comprehend. Occasionally you trust yourself enough to test your mental endurance and agility. Chances are good that you sometimes share your innovative ideas for making upgrades or improvements. You may offer proposals to your colleagues, coworkers, classmates, team members, friends, neighbors, or family members. It’s very likely that you sometimes dive into challenging situations because you trust yourself to survive or excel. Maybe you know that you have the talent to deal with obstacles or hazards as you encounter them.Launching new ventures might thrill you. Tackling impossible goals might energize you. Stepping out of your comfort zone into unfamiliar territory might stimulate you. Because of your strengths, you periodically surprise yourself and others by referring to a relatively obscure fact or insight you found in a book.Maybe you are delighted when something you filed in your memory or documented expands your own as well as your colleagues’ thinking. You might bring to conversations the major thoughts of writers, researchers, historians, policymakers, common folks, or prestigious leaders. Possibly reading is your ticket of admission to some interesting discussions. By nature, you periodically see yourself as the person in charge of people or projects. You might search for positions in which you can be the primary guide, director, boss, or decision maker.

HOW I USE THIS STRENGTH: I dream when I set goals. I don't measure what I have done in the past. I focus on what I want even if it's too far out of my grasp. The truth is I am positive I can do better than I have. How much better is what I seek to discover. I AM VERY POSITIVE there is more. 




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