"When I do this I will finally be confident..."
If you have ever said this to yourself then you are lying and you don't even know it. That's the worse thing about how I actually believed I had to DO SOMETHING in order to believe in myself. In order to be sure I was valuable. The truth is that I can decide right now or ANYTIME I WANT that I have true value and the only thing stopping me is my belief that I am not confident... yet.