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How to see your value

How to see your value

WHAT HAPPENED TO ME WHEN I FAILED TO SEE MY OWN VALUE?

I remember sitting in my car... alone and ready to end it...

..OK this is not as dramatic as that sounds. I was ready to end all the lies and stories I was telling myself. I was ready to end all of that because I was sick and tired of feeling completely powerless.

There is no right way... ONLY YOUR WAY!

There is no right way... ONLY YOUR WAY!

I am NOT a GURU!

I don't want to be either. What I love being is an expert on me. Why I do what I do. What happens when I don't do the work that it takes for me to grow. What makes me happy. What makes me sad. What works for me with my business and what doesn't. Also WHY IT DOES OR DOESN'T! See?

I love shopping on AMAZON!

I love shopping on AMAZON!

Amazon has become a major blessing in my life..

i know that sounds funny to read but there have been so many times I really need something and the truth is that having it delivered to me in 2 days saves time. TIME is the most valuable commodity we have ever been given. There is no way you can ever convince me that MONEY is more important than time. Saving money can never beat saving time.

You don't have to be an expert

You don't have to be an expert

"When I do this I will finally be confident..."

If you have ever said this to yourself then you are lying and you don't even know it. That's the worse thing about how I actually believed I had to DO SOMETHING in order to believe in myself. In order to be sure I was valuable. The truth is that I can decide right now or ANYTIME I WANT that I have true value and the only thing stopping me is my belief that I am not confident... yet.

The TRIGGER that set off my 11 year old daughter

 The TRIGGER that set off my 11 year old daughter

If we don't acknowledge the events that trigger our negative emotions we are doomed to repeat the lack of production that followed them.

Have you ever gotten really angry, sad, lonely or depressed and then there is a period of time that goes by where you don't produce anything? Most likely you stopped serving your own passions and chose to focus on the needs of others for a while. How long did that last? Was it a couple days? A couple weeks? A couple years? Your whole life?

Our past failures suck!

Our past failures suck!

I know this sounds like an obvious statement but it goes a bit deeper.

When I was first starting to do videos on FB and Periscope I relied on my past to dictate if I could do what was required to be an influence at the level I wanted to. I know that makes no real sense. The truth is that I was setting out to do something I had never done before. What would looking into my past do to help me?

THE STRESS of having kids home for the summer

THE STRESS of having kids home for the summer

Highly intelligent people are the best at telling BULLET PROOF stories that keep us from pushing ourselves every day...

I did a blog post a few days ago called THE STORIES THAT HOLD US BACK and in that post I talked about how we tell stories about our life and the moments that fill it. Today I experienced a really overwhelming story. If you have ever felt ANY kind of negative emotion that really sent you into a spin then WATCH THE VIDEO BELOW